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Too many indians, not enough chiefs
Throughout my working life, I don’t know how many times I’ve heard the complaint, “There’s too many chiefs, and not enough indians.” This outdated, immensely offensive in certain circles of society analogy refers to everyone in an organization being in charge of something, but no one seems to be available to do the actual work. I…
Read MoreThe one word you don’t want to hear at the barber shop
A couple of years ago, I was performing a solo concert in Virginia Beach. Well, I was one of a few featured soloists for this event, so it wasn’t just me, but I was playing several solos. I was due for a haircut, so I went to the barber down the road. I wanted to…
Read More2019 standards no longer apply
Last week, I was given the task of republishing an episode one of my clients originally published a couple of years ago. I guess an interview fell through at the last minute, and we were in need of something. So, having a backup plan, we had identified an episode from the past we could use…
Read MoreI just don’t need this gig
Funny how time and experience shifts our priorities in life. I’ve had a few jam sessions playing trumpet and cornet with a very talented pianist here in Hung Yen, Vietnam over the last couple of weeks. And I decided I would commit to doing a few concerts with him this summer and fall. What’s interesting is that…
Read MoreRest to get ahead
I just read an interesting email from an online marketer I subscribe to. He was talking about the illusion of constantly working on one’s business, or job, or what have you. One of the people this person mentioned who preaches the need to work constantly is Gary Vaynerchuk I’m not a huge fan of Gary…
Read MoreWhat if failure was a success
Or better put, what if each failure contributed to overall success? Success and failure can be a bit deceiving when viewed on the surface. To take the illustration of the iceberg, which you see only a small portion above water. A man appears to be successful. Lots of money, nice cars, a beautiful woman at…
Read MoreContrarian Easter thoughts from a contrarian Easter thinker
If someone were to ask me to define my religious leanings, I would most likely look at them like a calf looking at a new gate. Maybe it’s having been inside the religious sausage factory too long, but it’s rather difficult to explain. It might be easier to explain my own beliefs than to identify with…
Read MoreFresh Out of Remorse at This Bakery
The apartment building where Sana and I live in EcoPark, just outside of Hanoi, Vietnam is rather busy. It has 5 running elevators to accommodate the thousand or so residents of the building. And at peak times during the day, they’re all rather busy. Including the freight elevator. The freight elevator is meant for people…
Read More“Never Been Angry With God” Declares Man Who Just Doesn’t Get Being Angry With God
I’ve never been angry with God. Maybe I sound sanctimonious, holier than thou, self-righteous, or any number of unflattering synonyms, but I never have. I’ve had bad things happen to me. In 2003, I left a church organization I’d been a part of for 8 years, and was convinced I wasn’t going to wake up…
Read MoreThuggish Hotel Manager Shares Powerful Business Lesson With Petty Power Trip
January 22, 2021 “Mr. Newcomb…” said the voice on the other end of the line. “Yes.” “This is the hotel manager. Did you break the rules of the hotel this morning?” Silence. I could practically feel the white-hot lights of the interrogation room burning into my skin, my freedom hinging on what I would say…
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