Posts by James Newcomb
Airport experience a reminder of the frailty of life
A post from June 2016 showed up on my Facebook account today when I did a search for something seemingly unrelated. But it struck me as something worth resharing all these years later, and just as relevant IMO. What follows is what I posted in June 2016: “In the event you’re inclined to think the TSA…
Read MoreI had to re-establish the paradigm of my name
When I was a child and young adult, I heard many variations of my last name, Newcomb. You can see that the name contains the word “nuke”; not in the spelling but in the pronunciation. People used to poke fun of my name for that very reason. If something got “nuked” in the microwave, all…
Read More“I’m not there yet”
Today’s email is me shamelessly gushing over my wife, Sana. If you’ve followed this email newsletter for any length of time, you know that Sana recently arrived in the US after a very long time processing her visa. 3 months after her arrival, she got the hankering to get out of the house and find…
Read More“Settling” for a gig with a Top-5 orchestra
When Tony Prisk, second trumpet with the Philadelphia Orchestra, told me about some of his colleague’s attitude about their day job (in the most recent installment of the Trumpet Dynamics podcast, which you can access here ) I thought he was joking. How could a person devote their entire life from childhood to excelling at a craft,…
Read MoreThe reason I still play trumpet (for better or worse)
Interesting story for you. In May 2021, my wife Sana and I were riding in a taxi from our apartment to a mall in Hanoi, Vietnam for a relaxing Saturday lunch and stroll through the mall. I had been active playing trumpet for pretty much my entire life, yet the trajectory of my professional career…
Read MoreNew podcast recorded on the Oceanfront
Good evening, Short email for you, kind of a “proof of life” if you will. We ended up having an extremely busy week, as we apartment-shopped, packed up out of one house and moved into another one in the space of less than 72 hours. More than 24 hours of recovery time was needed for both mind and body,…
Read MoreWhat would the Rockefellers do?
Got a hot new podcast thrown through the sausage factory and published super early this morning. I was tossing and turning at about 3 am, so I decided rather than futile efforts at sleeping, may as well get some work done. Today’s episode of the Gone Newclear podcast features financial adviser Sarry Ibrahim of thinklikeabank.com. Sarry has helped…
Read MoreSecret mind hack to thrive in stressful situations
It’s no secret that performance anxiety is a problem for a lot of people. I’m not necessarily referring to musical performances; far more than that. I’m talking about everyday encounters where we’re forced to choose between saying what’s on our minds or conforming with the norms established by the Gatekeepers of Polite Society. That adrenaline…
Read MoreIt’s Been a Year
I type this email on my iPhone exactly 18 minutes prior to midnight EST on Dec 31, 2022. And although I’m not big on New Year’s resolutions, it’s interesting to reflect on the past 12 months to think about what went right, what went wrong, and what just went. In 2022, I traveled between Virginia…
Read MoreI believe in Sensitive and Kind Men…
I believe in the mystical men who believe in themselves. I believe in men who seek temperance and peace inside them. I believe in men poets, dreamers, magicians, writers, alchemists, artists, teachers, and angels. I believe in men who like to dance and sing and make life a celebration. I believe in men who embrace…
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